The point of a date is to get to know someone better. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP. God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. Very true, and we're just getting started Hubby just began his intern year. If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him. I think it might be worth trying. The decisions we have made in how to raise our kids have been our decisions alone. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc.
Alot of TBM women won't even consider dating non members. I understand in some measure of the pressure on the provider, but this profession was their choice. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family.
Is it wrong to make those types of sacrifices. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. I just pray that we can make it through the next 3 years. Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me. Things are very hard for me right now too.
I have no kids with him I had one from a marriage before and I'm glad I have no kids with him now. I am in my first year of medicine. Ask her on dates. I am Roman Catholic so I believe almost the exact same things as a regular-non mobot- type mormon This religion Mormonism has a dual identity where some believers are closed mined fools. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. Sometimes I feel burned out, but I have to carry on. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony.